Embrace JOMO: Finding Joy in Missing Out This Winter
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Winter has a way of filling up our calendars before we even realise it. Festive parties, end-of-year celebrations, family gatherings, last-minute dinners, work socials and spontaneous plans can quickly turn the cosiest season into one of constant motion. While there is plenty to love about winter socialising, there is also something quietly powerful about choosing to opt out. This season, we’re embracing JOMO — the Joy of Missing Out — and inviting you to do the same.
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JOMO: What does it stand for?
Quite simply, JOMO means the Joy of Missing Out. Coined as the opposite of FOMO — the Fear of Missing Out — JOMO is about finding contentment, relief and even happiness in saying no. It’s the decision to stay in, slow down and choose rest without guilt or explanation.
In a world where social media constantly showcases where everyone is, what they’re doing and how “fun” they appear to be having, JOMO is a gentle rebellion. It’s a conscious move away from external validation and a return to listening to what you actually need. Instead of forcing yourself out because you feel you should, JOMO encourages you to ask a much simpler question: Do I really want to do this?
If the answer is no — that’s okay. In fact, that’s where the joy begins.
Why is JOMO so important in winter?
Winter is a season of contrast. The days are shorter, the nights are longer, and the cold encourages us to retreat inward. Yet paradoxically, it’s also one of the busiest social periods of the year. As invitations pile up, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, exhausted and emotionally drained — even when the events themselves are meant to be enjoyable.
This constant “go, go, go” mentality can quietly take a toll. Overcommitting leads to burnout, disrupted routines and a feeling of being stretched too thin. When we ignore our need for rest, we often end up enjoying social moments less — arriving tired, distracted or counting down the minutes until we can leave.
JOMO matters because it restores balance. It gives you permission to match your lifestyle to the season you’re in. Winter naturally asks us to slow down, recharge and prioritise comfort. Embracing JOMO means honouring that rhythm rather than fighting against it.
The power of saying no
Our biggest recommendation this winter is deceptively simple: say no.
Please, please, please decline an invite that feels more like an obligation than a pleasure. If the thought of getting dressed, leaving the house and making polite conversation fills you with dread rather than excitement, that’s your cue. Staying in isn’t antisocial — it’s self-aware.
There is nothing indulgent about protecting your energy. Saying no to one thing allows you to say yes to something else: rest, calm, creativity or connection on your own terms. Put your pyjamas on at 5pm. Make yourself a warm drink. Don’t leave the house. Let the outside world carry on without you — it will.
Comfort that supports your slow moments
True JOMO is about creating an environment you genuinely want to stay in. Comfort plays a huge role in that, which is why what you wear at home matters just as much as what you wear out.
Our satin pyjama sets are designed for exactly these moments. With their slinky, liquid feel, they’re a dream to slip into after a long day. Soft against the skin and effortlessly elegant, they’re perfect for padding around the house, curling up on the sofa or even answering the door without feeling underdressed. Staying in doesn’t mean compromising on how you feel — it’s about elevating comfort into something special.
JOMO in real life: simple pleasures that restore you
JOMO isn’t about doing nothing at all — it’s about doing things that nourish you rather than drain you. When you choose to stay in, you reclaim time for the simple pleasures that often get pushed aside.
Think about the moments you miss when you’re rushing out the door:
Baking something sweet just because you feel like it
Reading a novel without checking the time
Starting a new boxset (or rewatching an old favourite)
Playing a board game you haven’t touched in years
Curling up on the sofa and calling an old friend for a proper catch-up
Running a long, luxurious bath
These small acts may seem ordinary, but they’re deeply restorative. They bring you back into your body, your home and your own rhythm.
After a soak, slipping into one of our towelled dressing gowns is the perfect finishing touch. Made from soft, cosy terry towelling, they’re designed to keep you warm, dry and relaxed — ideal for those slow winter evenings when comfort is everything.
Letting go of guilt
One of the biggest barriers to embracing JOMO is guilt. We worry about disappointing others, missing memories or appearing boring. But here’s the truth: constantly showing up when you’re exhausted doesn’t make you a better friend, partner or colleague.
When you choose rest intentionally, you show up more fully when it truly matters. JOMO teaches us that boundaries are not barriers — they’re bridges to better wellbeing. Missing out occasionally doesn’t shrink your world; it makes space for joy where it actually belongs.
What to expect when you embrace JOMO
Once you start practising JOMO, something interesting happens. You begin to enjoy your downtime without restlessness or second-guessing. Your evenings feel longer. Your weekends feel fuller — even when they’re quieter.
More importantly, you’ll notice that when you do say yes, it’s with genuine enthusiasm. You’re more present, more energised and more excited about the plans you choose to keep. JOMO doesn’t eliminate socialising — it refines it.
Make space for joy this winter
This winter, we invite you to slow down. To stay in. To choose comfort, calm and contentment over obligation. Light the candle. Put on the pyjamas. Run the bath. Start the series. Miss out — joyfully.
Because sometimes, the best moments happen when you decide not to go anywhere at all.
FAQs
Is embracing JOMO the same as being antisocial?
Not at all. JOMO isn’t about avoiding people or withdrawing completely — it’s about being intentional with your time and energy. By choosing which plans genuinely bring you joy, you’re more likely to show up feeling rested, present and enthusiastic when you do say yes.
How do I say no to plans without feeling guilty?
Start by reminding yourself that rest is not a luxury — it’s a necessity. You don’t owe anyone an explanation beyond a kind, honest response. A simple “I’m having a quiet night in” is enough. The more you practise setting gentle boundaries, the easier it becomes to release the guilt.
What are some easy ways to practise JOMO at home?
JOMO can be as simple as creating a cosy evening routine. Slip into comfortable loungewear or pyjamas, make a warm drink, run a bath, read a book or start a new series. The key is choosing activities that help you unwind and feel restored, without pressure or expectations.
Myza Editorial Team
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